The Grace Marriage Podcast

Is Your Marriage Taking a Back Seat to Your Kids?

Brad & Marilyn Rhoads

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Children are one of God's greatest gifts...but they were never meant to replace your marriage.

In this episode, Brad and Marilyn Rhoads unpack the subtle drift toward a child-centered home and why so many couples lose each other while trying to be great parents. You'll discover why putting your spouse first isn't selfish...it's one of the greatest gifts you can give your children.

Discover:

- Why 2/3 of marriages experience a drop in satisfaction when kids enter the picture
- How travel sports and over-parenting can hurt your marriage
- The danger of the empty nest crisis—and how to avoid it
- How to raise independent kids without losing your marriage in the process
- Why prioritizing your marriage is one of the best things you can do for your kids

Take Action: 

✅ Evaluate Priorities – Are you giving all your energy to your kids at the expense of your marriage?
✅ Set Boundaries – Avoid overcommitting to activities that pull you and your spouse apart.
✅ Make Date Night Non-Negotiable – Even if it means missing a kid’s event.
✅ Give Each Other Breaks – Swap responsibilities so both spouses get time to rest.
✅ Teach Kids Independence – Let them solve problems instead of catering to every need.
✅ Communicate as a Couple – Check in regularly to keep your marriage strong.
✅ Don’t Worship Your Kids – Keep your marriage first; it’s what gives kids security.

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